1 /5 Tinydancer625: I went to this church for years. Loved the Word and the holy spirit was always there! Unfortunately a woman there starting confiding in Me about her crush on Pastor Ray...I wanted no part of it especially since their both married. She had psychological problems, obviously because she asked if I could maybe talk to him about fixing his tooth (which is missing) ..she said it would make him look so much cuter. She also said she cut his hair at her house once but you wouldnt let her change the style and she was "bummed" about it. She once asked me "have you seen his wife"? With a disgusted look on her face..saying she was "messy". I stopped talking to her because I wanted no part of it. She then began gossiping about me to everyone she could (most likely guilt from what she told me). I never told a soul as I would of never wanted it to come out and deter people from coming to the Lord. She was relentless. She saw me at the gym and tried to talk to me..I said "with all due respect you have lying about me and slandering me to everyone you can, including my 10 year old great niece, and people ive been witnessing to for years..so I would appreciate if you wouldnt speak to me"...she went into a rage and began calling me names, mind you shes in her 50s and definitely has mental issues. I tried to get away from her and she hit me in the lip with her phone. I had to call the police. I didnt press charges. But I notified Pastor Ray..His response was "if it doesnt concern the church he didnt want to get involved". Indeed it did involve the church. When this woman and I were friends and I was having dinner with her at her brothers bar/restaurant She said im going to call Ray..she picked up her phone and called you, Pastor Ray and you were there in 15 minutes..when I brought this up to you, you said you were talking to the manager about food for the church. We dont serve dinner at the church and there was no manager around. You were hanging out with her and I. Nothing wrong with being friendly but use wisdom.if she told me all these things about how she feels about you..how many other people did she tell?...if shes wearing little feather outfits and following you outside talking to you for an hour after the church ended at 9pm at night you might get a hint thats shes in church for more than Jesus. Im not the onlybone who noticed either..youre are a married Pastor. GOD put a lot of souls in your hands....After she assaulted me I informed you of the things she said concerning your hair and teeth and wife. The end result was that her and I not attend CrossRoads anymore. I accepted that and recently Began going to another church. I told one of the members of Crossroads the new church I was attending. She may of told you because Unfortunately, Pastor Ray, you called and spoke to this Pastor about the situation. A half one-sided story. It makes it look like a cover-up. I always thought you were a great Pastor, a great man of God who loved his flock. Its really none of my business what you do..its between you and God. The devil is always tempting Godly men, especially Pastors...But for Gods sake Im a human being I was assaulted by this woman and asked to stop coming to the church Ive been going to for years where Ive formed Christian relationships..people who were like family to me. I respected you and never told a soul about what was going on and left your church and now Im trying to find Peace and Heal and worship my Lord and Savior somewhere else and you call to "gossip" to the new Pastor. Maybe tell him the entire truth.THATS why im writing this publicly. God knows my heart and knows every word of this is true. You never took into consideration what happened to me...thats okay because The Lord told me loud and clear: Dont put your faith in a church put it in Me". Praying you learned something from this
