3 /5 Danielle Ashley: Ive been a member of FPUM for a decade. Its a lovely church, but too big. I was married 4 yrs ago & bulletins still came in my maiden name. My birthday nor my anniversary was posted, & when I finally decided to transfer my membership, I was told that they were happy I found a home. Wait...I had one. I got lost among the other patrons. It upsets me. I loved this church and the people, but in the end I was left feeling forgotten or judged.