3 /5 Born Again: i recently visited the church to to hear a guest speaker. a couple of ladies greeted me at the door, which was nice. At first i felt welcome, but i didnt feel i would fit in overall, because its so casual and i like to wear dresses, but the woman wear pants and very casual clothing. I love dresses and like to feel feminine. I felt kind of judged on the second day because i wore a long pretty dress, very respectable, not showy. i felt the pastors wife didnt like me, and the pastors kids sat in front of me and gave me negative looks. I guess you have to "fit in". I felt like something was wrong with me, or i had a disease.