5 /5 Jason Bardis: My son & daughter each spent 3 years @ ICNS.
Every successive year, I appreciated ICNS more. Its not just a school where the casual play-based atmosphere teaches kids responsibility, manners, respect, civics, communication, etc.
Its also a community for the parents & extended families to come together, work together, play together, & then remain friends outside of school.
What makes ICNS so special is two-fold:
1. The teachers are incredible. Just ask any parent of an ICNS student, & I bet you $1 that parent will gush over the teachers. They have patience, experience, calmness, great communication, enthusiasm, compassion, & cheery attitudes. These exemplary personal attributes spread to the students & especially the parents, because...
2. ...because ICNS is a *cooperative* school in which, on any given school day, 2 teachers & 4 parents are running the class (& every family has a chairship responsibility as a key member of running 1 aspect of the school).
a) The parents pick up parenting techniques from the teachers & from each other.
b) The parents get to know 23 other kids & how to get through to them, motivate them, soothe them, challenge them, & entertain them. Think how useful this will be when you have your next kid, & this next kid is nothing like your current kid(s) so your same old parenting techniques dont work--good thing you worked at ICNS & learned how to interact with 24 different types of kids.
c) Be a fly on the wall & witness firsthand how your child interacts with peers, teachers, & adults. See how your kid participates in school & in which sort of creative play your kid engages. For the parents of those kids whose only answers to "What did you do in school today?" are "I dont know.", "I forgot.", "Nothing.", or "I learned.", you can peek behind the curtain & solve the mystery of what your kid does all day in school.
d) And most importantly, *especially* for anxious first-time parents with no real prior exposure to witnessing the rearing of kids of this age, its *DATA*!!! "Is my kid behaving typically?" "Is my kid coping with challenges as well as expected?" "Are my kids ABCs, 123s, & other foundation academics where theyre supposed to be?" "Is my kid patient/impatient, generous/selfish, focused/distracted, social/solitary, communicative/shy, etc.???"
Well, come to ICNS & you get 23 other data points to plot out on a graph in your head & see where your kid falls on that curve & youve instantly become far far wiser about the progress & growth of your child.
My ICNS work days were literally ("literally" used per its correct definition rather than in its current trendy sense) the highlight of my week.